Start Marriage With Clarity, Confidence and Strength
Marriage Preparation & Leadership Training for Chossonim ready to carry real responsibility and lead their marriage.
You’re getting married and of course you need to learn the halachos.
But if no one trains you how to actually carry responsibility and lead your marriage, you’re being sent in unprepared.
This isn’t typical chosson class.
It’s leadership training for marriage — rooted in Torah, built for real life.
Marriage doesn’t break because men don’t care.
It breaks because men were never trained to lead when things get emotional.
I don’t teach men how to talk.
I train the strength required to stay grounded, present, and decisive when pressure hits.
Marriage doesn’t need better communication.
It needs leadership.
Why Most Chosson Classes Fail Men
Most chosson classes do one thing well:
They teach information.
They do not train:
- Emotional steadiness
- Leadership under stress
- How to respond without escalating
- How to stay present without fixing or withdrawing
So men enter marriage informed —
but untrained for real life.
That gap is where resentment, confusion, and distance begin.
The Hineni Method™
This training is built on one principle:
Strength before technique.
You don’t start with communication tools.
You start with inner stability.
The model:
- Bitul before ego
- Presence before problem-solving
- Leadership before dialogue
This is not therapy.
This is not counseling.
This is training.
What You Will Be Trained To Do
By the end of this training, you will know how to:
- Stay calm when emotions rise
- Listen without collapsing or defending
- Lead without controlling
- Set direction without aggression
- Create safety without passivity
Not in theory.
Through guided drills and real-world scenarios.
This is muscle-building, not motivation.
Who This Is For (And Who It’s Not)
This is for you if:
- You want to lead calmly, not react
- You want respect without demanding it
- You want a strong home, not a fragile one
- Leadership without force
- Strength without aggression
This is not for you if:
- You want shortcuts
- You want validation
- You want someone else to carry responsibility for your marriage
This training is demanding — because marriage is.
FAQ'S
Is this a replacement for a chosson teacher?
No. Halacha is essential. This trains what halacha alone does not.
Is this therapy?
No. This is leadership and emotional strength training.
What if I'm not so emotional
Perfect. This training is about presence, not expression.